First of all, thank you so much for reading this.
I am trying to start a movement for a better world by spreading this message I wrote, inspired by a friends publication. If you were so sweet to read this and help me spread this message I´d be REALLY grateful.
Our Beauty Concept:
People blame society for making people feel ugly, but they don´t realize that we are society. And that´s a responsibility we need to assume. No, it´s not our fault that some people insult others, and it´s entirely not our fault how the parameters of beauty have gone, limiting it to being skinny, tall, tanned, have perfect teeth, and lots of other things no one can accomplish on its entirety. But we have the responsibility to change that. And it´s the easiest thing to do. We CAN change society, because we are part of it, and what we do, what we say, what we think, our attitude MATTERS. YOU MATTER, and you have the power to change the way this world spins, you can change the parameters. We all can, and we need to be united. We need to learn. We need to learn that, beauty is not on the outside. I mean, sure, EVERYONE enjoys a nice view, and EVERYONE likes pretty people. The thing is, that everything depends on YOUR point of view. How you see beauty, how you perceive things. Eyes see what they want to, and it entirely depends on you. You can choose to see the outside, and be guided by the illusion, what most of the people [no, not even you: most of the people, society] consider pretty, you can choose to just live in a fake world, with fake people, that may look good but aren´t nice. You can choose to live in a world where no one is considered pretty enough, where every day is a fight to reach what most of us consider beauty, a depressing rode to the illusion of being perfect, never achieved, to suffer, pain and misery. OR you can choose to live in a BETTER world, a REAL world, a world without parameters, where being pretty inside is what matters, whit no bullying, no insults, no psychological disorders, no anorexia or bulimia, no dangerous operations, no pain at all. You may wonder why I mention all of this. The reason is very simple: PARAMETERS CAUSE THAT. The desperation for perfection causes that. You can cause that, you can suffer that. Misery, pain, suffering, depression. But all of that [ironically] IS INSIDE OF US, AND IT DEPENDS ON US TO LET THAT GROW OR NOT. You can take a chance, you can change. That´s something EVERYONE CAN DO, but it´s still a huge step to freedom, happiness and a better world. You may think is hard, but it isn´t. It is the easiest thing to do. It´s costless, because all the good things in life are free. All the good things in life aren´t things. You can change the world, you can make your life part of a huge movement, make it matter. A huge movement I´m starting NOW. It all starts NOW, and that´s all that matters, because only by changing TODAY, we can improve TOMORROW. You only need to stop judging, to stop focusing only on pretty people or [even worst] on pretty things. You need to look at a person´s personality, at a person´s life, at a person´s INSIDE, at a person´s SOUL. Then, you´ll realize, EVERYONE IS PRETTY, EVERYONE HAS GOT SOMETHING TO OFFER, EVERYONE DESERVES LOVE, EVERYONE HAS GOT QUALITIES, AND EVERYONE DESERVES A BEAUTIFULL LIFE. AND BY SAYING EVERYONE, I AM INCLUDING YOU. You need to realize, that you don´t need to be the smartest, the funniest, the prettiest, you don´t need to be the best at all. NO, I am not talking about mediocrity, because you are NOT MEDIOCRE IF YOU ARE GIVING YOUR BEST. If you give everything, if you put effort on it, you are the best. Because you only need to be the best you can. You don´t need to be better than others. You don´t need to prove ANYTHING TO ANYONE. You are a human being, you are a person. That is enough. You may not be the highlight, but you don´t need that to be good. You are good enough. You are BETTER THAN ENOUGH. You are YOUR BEST. You have tried, and that makes the best. As Kanye West said “Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, but they´ll never be you”. Because being you is what matters. YOU are unique. YOU are the perfect combination of the different rights and wrongs. And YOU ARE PERFECT JUST THAT WAY. If you weren´t like this, you wouldn´t be you. You are the only person in the world that way. You are worth it. You shouldn´t regret anything, because those mistakes, those wrongs, those flaws, make you WHO YOU ARE NOW: An amazing, wonderful person. So no, NEVER REGRET ANYTHING AND NEVER FELL GUILTY FOR YOU FLAWS. Everyone has got flaws. Maybe that skinny girl sucks at math, maybe that pretty faced guy is awful at music, you don´t know. No one ever knows. And even if you don´t like yourself, even if you think there´s something you should change, DO IT FOR YOURSELF, NOT BECAUSE OTHERS TELL YOU TO. If someone ever insults you, tells you you´re a ugly, you´re not worth it, that they dislike you, IGNORE IT, because IT IS NOT TRUE. IT IS JUST A LIE. Don´t ever believe someone who insults you, because a person who needs to insult other people in order to feel better, is a liar. That person is lying to you, and most likely envies you. That person is the one who´s not worth it, the one disliked, the one that´s ugly, the one that should be insulted. Don´t listen to those people because IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, IS THEIRS, AND IF ANYONE SHOULD CHANGE IS NOT YOU, IS THEM. I am begging you to feel confident, to love yourself and to not regret your mistakes. I am begging you believe in yourself as much as I do. Because I believe in you. I believe YOU CAN CHANGE SOCIETY. I believe YOU CAN CHANGE PARAMETERS. I believe YOU CAN STOP JUDGING AND START LOVING. I believe, that YOU CAN CHANGE THE WAY THE WORLD SPINS. I trust you, I trust all of you to help me change the world we live in, to LEARN TO FEEL people, not to simply see them. I believe YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE WORTH IT, and YOU DESERVE THIS. You deserve this renewed world we´re fighting for; you deserve a beautiful life, you deserve to be appreciated, loved and respected. You deserve it as much as everybody else. You also have the responsibility to appreciate, love and respect. I am asking you to change. It doesn´t matter if you´ve been superficial before, it matters who you decide to be now. YOU CAN CHANGE. EVERYONE CAN CHANGE. We´re not talking about something you have to do. We´re talking about something you DECIDE to do. Something you commit to, something you change, and something you decide on your own. It is your decision to make your life matter, it is your decision to change the world, it is your decision to give and reattribute love. IT IS YOUR DECISION TO BE HAPPY. Choose right.
This is my blog. I am going to be posting more messages so, if you´d like to help here´s the address: http://bluelifebluegurl99.blogspot.com/
Thank you so much for your time and your attention sweethearts :) Have a nice day.